We are not in control of our life. Life is living both for us and through us. Life is expressing itself through us. We are an extension of source energy/the universe.
This is why I say we are sparks of light. We are ALL the same, we come from the same energy source. This is why we are ALL connected, we are designed to empathise, to connect, to feel, to collaborate to help each other. We are not designed to compete with each other – that is a human made idea based on the illusion we are separate from each other. Yes it looks that way but we are not.